So you want to seduce your ex boyfriend, huh? Maybe you’re hoping to spark up the old romance again? Well, in this article, I’ll tell you eight body language signals that you can use that will put your ex boyfriend’s sex drive into overload.
But first I have to warn you – if your goal is to actually get your ex boyfriend back into your arms (for good), then you can’t just use these techniques. These strategies are only for women who just want to sleep with their ex boyfriends. While sexual attraction is paramount when it comes to relationships, if you actually want your ex boyfriend to fall back in love with you, then you need to follow a very specific set of strategies outlined in my guide… but that’s a subject for another article!
I repeat: this article is only if you want to sleep with your ex boyfriend and that’s it.
Now, why have I written an article focusing on body language signals only? Well, it’s been said that 93% of all communication is non-verbal. That means that your facial expression and body language paints a more vivid picture of what you want than the words that are coming out of your mouth.
Meaning, if ten different people said the exact same sentence, there could be ten unique interpretations based how the sentence is said.
The thing is with body language is that it’s completely subconscious. When you’re angry, you’re not intentionally “squishing” your face and screaming at the top of your lungs. It just comes naturally. Likewise, if you’re happy, you naturally smile – and you don’t even think about it. And the thing is, attractive women all universally use the exact same body language to convey sex appeal…but they don’t even think about it!
8 Ways To Seduce Your Ex Boyfriend All Over Again
So how can you convey this sexy body language? Here are eight sexy and seductive signals that you can send to your ex boyfriend right now to get him thinking about “taking you,” right there and then!
1.) Maintain Strong Eye Contact
When men feel masculine, they feel sexy. When they feel sexy, they can be turned on very, very easily. One way to make your ex boyfriend feel masculine is to just simply stare at him!
Stare at him intently for 20 seconds. Give him that “come-hither” look. Do this 3 times in the span of 10 minutes and watch him pay attention to you like a puppy craving a treat!
2.) Expose Your Neck
Pretend your ex boyfriend is a vampire.
Flick your hair to the side and tilt your head at a bit of an angle, exposing your neck. This is a highly sexual signal that makes men subconsciously think about dominating you. Never thought of that, did you?
I know, this isn’t really a groundbreaking strategy, but it works. Smiling sends all the right messages to your ex boyfriend. It shows that you enjoy his company and that you find him entertaining. It’s a very friendly and open gesture that allows people to feel more comfortable around you.
4.) Take Care of Those Lips
Lips are sexy. Why are men all crazy for Angelina Jolie, anyways…?
It’s the point of physical contact for a kiss and we all know how hot those can be. Not only that but having red, full, luscious lips is a sign of youthfulness and health! Also, the colour red has been proven to increase a man’s heart rate (again…bet you didn’t know that!). So whip out that rouge lipstick and lip-gloss!
When your ex boyfriend is talking to you, try licking your lips. This is a very strong sexual signal and will make him think about kissing you. Biting your lip also accomplishes this goal, but try and be subtle about it.
5.) Fix Your Hair
Both men and women do this when they see someone they’re interested in. They’ll fix their hair, straighten out their jacket, and try and show off their hottest attribute. So don’t be afraid to twirl your hair while you’re chatting with your ex boyfriend.
Also, the classic “hair flick” is a sure-fire way to get that sexy message across. Again, subtly is key so make sure you practice in front of a mirror before you actually try this in real life.
6.) Mind Your Foot Position
According to body language experts, women should stand with their feet less than 6 inches apart. Their toes should slightly be pointing inward as well. Why is this seductive? Well, it makes you seem a lot more approachable and open. Not to mention it’s more feminine and it makes you look taller!
Mirroring is a body language technique that all people subconsciously do. Do you notice that when you meet a new group of friends, they all sort of “mimic” each other? Not like a mime does, but they’ll use the same expressions. They’ll walk the same way. They’ll act the same. They’ll use the same vocal inflections and tonalities. This isn’t a weird coincidence; this is a biological mechanism that makes people comfortable with each other. It kind of sends the message that you’re on the same team.
8.) Mind Your Legs!
Legs are a huge turn on for men, and what you do with your legs can often make or break your interaction with a man. Try crossing and uncrossing your legs very slowly and make sure your knees are always pointing towards your ex boyfriend. Also, while your legs are crossed, try hanging your heel out of your shoe. Also, subtly rotate your “hanging” foot around a little bit. This will get your ex boyfriend’s pulse racing and taking him home will be a walk in the park!
Remember, these body language signals aren’t just effective on your ex boyfriend, they’re effective on all men. Again, attractive women do this sort of stuff naturally so try and be conscious about this and after a little while, you’ll begin using these eight signals subconsciously.